TY  - BOOK
AU  - Stoddard,Alexandra
TI  - Things I want my daughters to know: : a small book about the big issues in life
SN  - 006059487X
U1  - 170.82 
PY  - 2004///]
CY  - New York
PB  - HarperResource
KW  - Women
KW  - Conduct of life
N1  - Find work you love that supports you financially; It's easier to get into things than it is to get out of them; Think positive : you will live longer than a pessimist; In really tough times, regularly take time off; Don't lay down a law with a child that you are not prepared to enforce; Travel heavy; You don't have to prove anything to anyone; An invitation is not an obligation; Be grateful but don't expect gratitude; Pain is inevitable; suffering is a choice; Be more a generalist than a specialist; Open presents slowly; Give anonymously; Feel, don't just think; Maintain your unique friendships with both sexes; Unplug technology with no apologies; Remember that everyone is struggling; When you discover something you love, stock up; Don't be on time, be early; Listen to the wisdom of your children; Tell yourself you have done nothing wrong; Learn to style your own hair; Don't assume anything; Have your own mad money; Move your feet; Overlook things; Preparation is paramount; The five-hour rule; Express an original point of view; Don't save the best for the last; No one else really knows or understands; Onward and inward; When you change one thing, fell free to rethink everything; Stick to your plan; Don't see people for how they could be, but as they really are; There is no security except within us; Exercise the vocabulary of thanks and appreciation; Develop the rhythm of buffer time; Think of yourself : by being self-centered, you may be benefiting the world; Keep doing what you're doing; Your soul is not for sale; Have your own independent financial advisor; Don't feel guilty about your feelings toward your parents, stepparents, or in-laws; Find a way to share your gifts; Embrace change; Listen to the wisdom of your body; Finish up strong; Love your own company; Remember that people are funny about money; Do your best and leave the rest; Living takes time; Be careful what you give up; Hurry never; You are smarter and wiser than you think; When you've made your point, sit down
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