TY - BOOK AU - Fish,Sharon TI - Alzheimer's: : caring for your loved one, caring for yourself SN - 0745918808 U1 - 618.976831 PY - 1990/// CY - Batavia, Illinois PB - Lion Publishing KW - Alzheimer's disease KW - Patients KW - Home care KW - Family relationships N1 - Includes bibliographical references (pages 257-259) and index; Part one : something has gone wrong; Bruised reeds and dimly burning wicks; Searching for the truth; Facing the facts; What's happening upstairs?; Part two : caring for your loved one; When memory starts to fade; Emotional fireworks; Always on the move; Baffling behaviours; The struggle for safety; Part three : caring yourself; People who help; Get me out of here!; Our tangled emotions; Hot but not burned up; Joy in the mourning; Part four : saying goodbye; The difficult decisions; Blowing out the candle ER -