TY - BOOK AU - Schooler,Jayne E. TI - The whole life adoption book: : realistic advice for building a healthy adoptive family SN - 0891097228 U1 - 362.734 PY - 1993///] CY - Colorado Springs, Colorado PB - PiƱon Press KW - Adoption KW - Adoptive parents N1 - Includes bibliographical references (pages 211-216); Introduction : a relationship promise; Part one. Adoption : a labor of heart; Choosing to love a stranger: unique challenges adoptive parents must face; Creating a family : how do children enter our homes, and who are they?; What builds healthy adoptive families? Ten critical success factors; Developing a supportive adoption environment : how to prepare biological children, family and friends; Part two. When a child comes home; Attachment : how to develop the crucial bond; Barriers to adjustments : strategies to ease the transition; Part three. Communicating about adoption; How do we feel about adoption? Critical questions for parents and children; Talking to children about adoption : when and how; Part four. Growing up adopted; Creating a nurturing family : giving our children what they need; What's inside an adopted adolescent? Helping our teens resolve five painful issues; Transcultural adoption : preparing for special challenges; Searching for a past : why adopted children seek their roots and how parents can respond ER -