TY - BOOK AU - Sheehy,Gail TI - Passages in caregiving: : turning chaos into confidence SN - 9780061661204 U1 - 362.14 PY - 2010///] CY - New York PB - William Morrow KW - Caregivers KW - Chronically ill KW - Care KW - Psychological aspects KW - Home nursing N1 - Includes bibliographical references and index; The making of a caregiver; The call; Why didn't we talk about this before?; The inner pilgrimage; Tag, you're it!; First turning : shock and mobilization; How we mobilize; What to do about Mom and Dad?; Second turning : the new normal; Seeking a new dream; The education of a fearless caregiving family; Sibling wars; Third turning : boomerang; When it comes back; Chasing the tiger; Sandwiched!; Fourth turning : playing God; The whole world in my hands; Taking clay to Monet; Guess what, we're not God!; When a couple is divided by dementia; Fifth turning : "I can't do this anymore!"; Traumatic transitions; Ready to explode; Mind jobs : caring for a loved one with cognitive decline; Cognitive comeback : a creative breakthrough; Sixth turning : coming back; Breaking down, breaking through; Caring for the unloved one; Seventh turning : the in-between stage; Beyond cure, what now?; Coming home; The new Latina model; Eighth turning : the long good-bye; The crucial choice; Finding the "why?" to live; Moments of presence; Crossing the rubicon; Epilogue : who will take care of us; From crisis to closure ER -